Writer, Poet, Actor, Spoken Word Artist, Musician, LGBTIQ Loud Mouth, Feminist, Europhile, Drinker, Lover of Country Music, Celebrator of the Amazingness of Women. Also, Mental.
In a chatroom for gay men in South West England, I met Alan. In the days before facebook groups dating websites or Gaydar, chatrooms were the portal to sex hook-ups and bootie calls. I had only stumbled upon that kind of chatroom by accident once, in the days when we had Compuserve and I was looking for Cantopop related things. But on AOL there were endless lists of gay chatrooms for men all over the world, filled with people looking for the same thing I was.